Having lived as a Buddhist monk for many years this rings true to me on so many levels. Most people have goodness inside of them, they've just gotten lost along the way. Very rarely did I meet people who didn't want to feel calm and happy and have integrity. Love this man ❤️
@@dubyadubyaeee Muslims sanction holy war and do kill Christians as well as persons of other faiths, as do Christians , Hindus, Buddhists, humans kill humans for lots of different reasons some personal some political, I don't think you'll find answers for that on RUclips though 😂
@@dubyadubyaeee just because your unwilling to accept your religion ( which is divided into the house of peace and the house of WAR) doesn't mean the rest of us are as one sided and unwilling to accept that humans, ALL humans of ALL nationalities and ALL religions commit atrocity, Im not in favour of it , it's just a simple fact!!!!
If you know anything at all about human history, then you will know that from as long ago as man first learned to walk, he has been raping, pillaging, slaying , enslaving and conquering his neighbours
@Brian that unfortunately takes the average joe like 20 years of living in a cloud before they develop enough self awareness to ask such questions. And such programming of negative beliefs almost always stem from bad childhood experiences/faulty parenting, which adds another layer of denial.
just realised he is the same guy who wrote The Chimp Paradox, which I started reading now and suggest others to do as well, language is very clear and by just adding a face/role to your anxiety (the chimp) help putting things in perspective
This ties in with Eckart Tole's book The Power of Now and how our ego presents a past and future centric identity that is not who we are in the present and on the inside. The outcome of real choice is who we want to be
Thanks for the motivational video. Before I start with anything I will recognize my strengths that boosts up my level of confidence and I used to stay away from negative vibes. Stay hungry! Stay positive!
Everyone with comments saying how useful this is, and I am not trying to say this is bad or anything because I watched the whole interview and I thought it was really informative. But when you really boil it down, is this video actually that useful. He says first to identify who we are and want to be and then understand why we have low self esteem (for example overeating)... to me this is not revolutionary. If you apply this video, you may increase confidence a bit and sure it may help but I struggle to think people have not heard this before... I would not say it leads to unstoppable confidence or will have long-lasting impact. Just my opinion I don't want to sound like a Karen lol
Read his latest book, a path through the jungle. He goes into much more, very useful, detail that can really help you. I guess he wasn’t going to give the full advice for free on a podcast!
4 of the most dangerous words: *“I already know that.”* Just because people have heard a piece of advice before, doesn’t mean they actively implement it. Common sense isn’t often common practice, and repetition is key for making anything stick. A lot of people are on the hunt for revolutionary advice, hacks, and tactics, and information they haven’t heard before… Yet they don’t do the basics and still wonder why nothing’s changed 🤷♀️
Everyone always says things we already know. The question is are we really putting it into action? Are we actually defining who we want to be or just throwing words that we think would make us happy?
Ok Karen! Just kidding.. I get what you are saying .. it's kind of simplistic. But some people are just starting on their self development journey. So.its still important!!!
Accept our built-in Human Nature is What It Is ... and if its Not What We Are if We Were to Choose then Excercise The Very Human Trait Only We Have that Separates Us from Other Animals ... Choose & Decide to Modify that Human Nature to Become What we Desire to Be! Ya ,😊 .
I did hospice for many many years you’re not fucked. You have time to just start having fun, dance laugh and enjoy life. That’s what we’re here for. You’re not fucked. You just gotta change the way you do things and quit trying to be so perfect.
any identity you choose will decide your gradation, nothing is really above other thing just each has different level of usefulness choose what fits your brain even your DNA decides what drives you and won't drive other person
Isn't it slightly problematic to label the "chimp" (emotional) parts of ourselves as something to be disregarded? They also involve things like love, compassion, and creativity. Wouldn't it be better to ask why the chimp is so hurt?
Hi its the model Steve has created to help underatand how your brain works. Human is you...Chimp is the Emotional survival part of your brain. Computer is your Values, Truths of Life and Life Force...what you believe life is all about
Confidence is a personal sense of coping and having a good judgement of competency and potential. Arrogance is overrating yourself in comparison to others. Greed is something confident people can have, as can those who lack confidence.
Chris this is almost possible once you understandcand recognise the machine at work. I know because ive done it. Any questions please ask i love to help
U don't have to agree with everything when u see its science related , science changes everytime u can't make it as ur foundation if it keeps on changing just be urself and speak up for urself simple as that
In my view there's nothing new under the Sun when it comes to being Human...Do consistently, every single day what is good for you long term and you'll live a long and fruitful life...Structure and repetition will always provide results.....Structure your 24 hours into doing what's healthy and do that repeatedly every single day.
I don’t understand it you are trying to get to the truth that wanting a teenager to lie can be part of that? Hopefully they might not be just be telling the full truth as part of their discovery? But becoming a ‘lier’ would be something to be concerned about.
Multiple areas of disagreement here. You can’t “choose” to be confident. You have to prove it to yourself. The human system isn’t built for calm. It’s built for survival. Too many areas of question to continue…
U will virtue signal and lie about who u want to be because most of us cannot accept we r not perfect. His strategy cant really work in my oppinion. U cant just decide to be someone else...in my oppinion this is a big lie sold to the world...all one can do in my oppinion is understand better who they are by going deep into all their states and emotions, and by understanding who u r (good & bad) u start accepting that and maybe by figuring out why u do the bad stuff u start changing. U need to get Kapil Gupta on....hes the only one telling some deep truths into an industry full of lies. How tos work but not in the personal space, more towards business ...
Watch the full episode here - ruclips.net/video/G1hqsr5mkzA/видео.html
Having lived as a Buddhist monk for many years this rings true to me on so many levels.
Most people have goodness inside of them, they've just gotten lost along the way. Very rarely did I meet people who didn't want to feel calm and happy and have integrity.
Love this man ❤️
@@dubyadubyaeee sssshhhhh, take your nonsense elsewhere
@@dubyadubyaeee why do Chinese kill Tibetans? Why do Russians kill Ukrainians?, Why do Muslims kill Christians? , Why do Jews kill Palestinians?
@@dubyadubyaeee Muslims sanction holy war and do kill Christians as well as persons of other faiths, as do Christians , Hindus, Buddhists, humans kill humans for lots of different reasons some personal some political, I don't think you'll find answers for that on RUclips though 😂
@@dubyadubyaeee just because your unwilling to accept your religion ( which is divided into the house of peace and the house of WAR) doesn't mean the rest of us are as one sided and unwilling to accept that humans, ALL humans of ALL nationalities and ALL religions commit atrocity, Im not in favour of it , it's just a simple fact!!!!
If you know anything at all about human history, then you will know that from as long ago as man first learned to walk, he has been raping, pillaging, slaying , enslaving and conquering his neighbours
True hell is when the person you are meets the person who you could be.
@Brian that unfortunately takes the average joe like 20 years of living in a cloud before they develop enough self awareness to ask such questions. And such programming of negative beliefs almost always stem from bad childhood experiences/faulty parenting, which adds another layer of denial.
Npc
Wow this hit me deep! Let’s get to work
I had a dream where the person I was met who I could be and it was more like a path to heaven
Even worse the person you were MEANT TO BE!
just realised he is the same guy who wrote The Chimp Paradox, which I started reading now and suggest others to do as well, language is very clear and by just adding a face/role to your anxiety (the chimp) help putting things in perspective
thanks!
This ties in with Eckart Tole's book The Power of Now and how our ego presents a past and future centric identity that is not who we are in the present and on the inside. The outcome of real choice is who we want to be
I loved that book, really changed who I am. I will definitely look into this more.
Eckart the trolle
Thanks for the motivational video.
Before I start with anything I will recognize my strengths that boosts up my level of confidence and I used to stay away from negative vibes.
Stay hungry! Stay positive!
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I like that the thumbnail says "cofindence"
Its all about ...you are not your machine ...👏👏
Love this video thanks for sharing
This is priceless. Thanks a lot for having this conversation.
Thank you professor I am truly grateful for your guidance thanks for giving me new perspective for accepting myself as an animal and a human
Man I feel so cofindent now
I was a teenager who wasn't a normal teenager - this has only just made me realise that
Me too man .. I was way too organised, clean and organised.. but hello .. he says you need to do what you naturally are
The was very helpful and refreshing. Awesome stuff
Everyone with comments saying how useful this is, and I am not trying to say this is bad or anything because I watched the whole interview and I thought it was really informative. But when you really boil it down, is this video actually that useful. He says first to identify who we are and want to be and then understand why we have low self esteem (for example overeating)... to me this is not revolutionary. If you apply this video, you may increase confidence a bit and sure it may help but I struggle to think people have not heard this before... I would not say it leads to unstoppable confidence or will have long-lasting impact. Just my opinion I don't want to sound like a Karen lol
Read his latest book, a path through the jungle. He goes into much more, very useful, detail that can really help you. I guess he wasn’t going to give the full advice for free on a podcast!
Ok, what's the solution, how can one gain confidence
4 of the most dangerous words:
*“I already know that.”*
Just because people have heard a piece of advice before, doesn’t mean they actively implement it. Common sense isn’t often common practice, and repetition is key for making anything stick.
A lot of people are on the hunt for revolutionary advice, hacks, and tactics, and information they haven’t heard before…
Yet they don’t do the basics and still wonder why nothing’s changed 🤷♀️
Everyone always says things we already know. The question is are we really putting it into action? Are we actually defining who we want to be or just throwing words that we think would make us happy?
Ok Karen! Just kidding.. I get what you are saying .. it's kind of simplistic. But some people are just starting on their self development journey. So.its still important!!!
Fantastic info
This made worked wonders on Ronnie.
Accept our built-in Human Nature is What It Is ...
and if its Not What We Are if We Were to Choose
then Excercise The Very Human Trait Only We Have that Separates Us from Other Animals ...
Choose & Decide to Modify that Human Nature to Become What we Desire to Be! Ya ,😊
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Ok... ill not worry so much now about my messy lie telling teenage daughters! 😆
I can chill out now! 🤗
There is always a becoming for many 😊
My room was perfectly clean from like age 8 - 18
Kinda explains why I’m f’cked now😂
At least life is short. I’ll be outta here before I know it😊
I did hospice for many many years you’re not fucked. You have time to just start having fun, dance laugh and enjoy life. That’s what we’re here for. You’re not fucked. You just gotta change the way you do things and quit trying to be so perfect.
Steve, please invite Raquel Britzke for an interview. She is a beautiful person and nutritionist, she lives in London and is a very successful C&O too
Kristen Nef say that compassion > Self esteem
any identity you choose will decide your gradation, nothing is really above other thing just each has different level of usefulness
choose what fits your brain
even your DNA decides what drives you and won't drive other person
@@szymonbaranowski8184 oh you are a slave?
Believe in yourself and it will improve your confidence...
How do you believe in yourself ?…
@@miathegirl1212 Repeat it in your mind and believe in it...
Kindly edit the spelling of confidence in thy thumbnail
Isn't it slightly problematic to label the "chimp" (emotional) parts of ourselves as something to be disregarded? They also involve things like love, compassion, and creativity. Wouldn't it be better to ask why the chimp is so hurt?
Yes, if you read the books, this is what you’ll find advocated. Befriending the chimp and working with it.
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So what is the proposed method?? We've acknowledged the machine, then what??
Sorry, what are the chimp and computer system/machine he speaks of?
The book the chimp paradox will explain.
Hi its the model Steve has created to help underatand how your brain works. Human is you...Chimp is the Emotional survival part of your brain. Computer is your Values, Truths of Life and Life Force...what you believe life is all about
If you read the book 'A Path Through The Jungle' by Steve Peters (the bloke in the video) he breaks it down quite succinctly.
Be careful confidence can lead to arrogance and greed always stay humble Don’t be too🐔
No, don't be careful, I would guess most people are under-confident by a factor of 100, they don't even begin to think they could maybe do something.
Confidence is a personal sense of coping and having a good judgement of competency and potential. Arrogance is overrating yourself in comparison to others. Greed is something confident people can have, as can those who lack confidence.
Interference is a big thing! If only we could remove it at will
Chris this is almost possible once you understandcand recognise the machine at work. I know because ive done it. Any questions please ask i love to help
I had a spotless room as a teenager and couldn't lie... I'm now curious what was wrong with me 🤣
😆😆😆
Me too
Spelling mistake in thumbnail
didnt get the method
Does this professor talk about teenagers in a separate video ?
Great to know my bran is a computer
That had erro now and again
The title of this video has nothing to do with the actual content…nothing has been said about “Confidence”😂
U don't have to agree with everything when u see its science related , science changes everytime u can't make it as ur foundation if it keeps on changing just be urself and speak up for urself simple as that
Is he calling me a chimp?
Yes 😂
In my view there's nothing new under the Sun when it comes to being Human...Do consistently, every single day what is good for you long term and you'll live a long and fruitful life...Structure and repetition will always provide results.....Structure your 24 hours into doing what's healthy and do that repeatedly every single day.
I'm 20 lol. Why you do this to me RUclips 😢
"Love is evOl, God is confidence, Sin is sincere!" - M. Manson
This is not religion but science chant hare Krishna and all will be saved your min everything
Please Tim, don’t do anything corporate like this again. We need Qanon and Epstein rants.
I don’t understand it you are trying to get to the truth that wanting a teenager to lie can be part of that?
Hopefully they might not be just be telling the full truth as part of their discovery? But becoming a ‘lier’ would be something to be concerned about.
Multiple areas of disagreement here. You can’t “choose” to be confident. You have to prove it to yourself. The human system isn’t built for calm. It’s built for survival. Too many areas of question to continue…
I thought this nga was the nga from the pikachu movie
I love all this information from this genius people, but boy how annoying are you Steven...a bit egotistical always talking about yourself.
Age 65 settings goals daily certified hypnotist master trainer master health coach
Why did RUclips suggest this to me ?
I mean ...am 33 !!!!
it wasn't answered at all 😂😂😂
This aka Prof. beating around the bush !!!!what are you talking about .
This is not at all useful. And why do you keep talking about chimps?
U will virtue signal and lie about who u want to be because most of us cannot accept we r not perfect. His strategy cant really work in my oppinion. U cant just decide to be someone else...in my oppinion this is a big lie sold to the world...all one can do in my oppinion is understand better who they are by going deep into all their states and emotions, and by understanding who u r (good & bad) u start accepting that and maybe by figuring out why u do the bad stuff u start changing. U need to get Kapil Gupta on....hes the only one telling some deep truths into an industry full of lies.
How tos work but not in the personal space, more towards business ...
he could fix his accent a bit, cant understand well after 20 years of learning the language
Andrew tate is a living example free the tate brothers their lives are more important and relevant than these RUclips vids!
THESE BIGOTED NAMES ARE NOT TRUE. WESTERN IMMORATLITY AT BEST